My father doesn’t read my blog
As the year draws to a close, I’ve been reflecting on the progress of my life as a freelance copywriter. I started the business in August and this blog in September.
My goal all along in starting the blog was to give others a chronicle of one woman’s attempt to start her own writing business. I fluctuate among posts about the business of writing, the challenges of working at home, the joys of procrastination, the best and worst tools for writers or small businesses, the pleasure of empty bank accounts and the ups and downs of just being human.
I love the community of readers. A couple of times a week I get emails from aspiring copywriters who want to know about tools I’ve referenced or marketing techniques I’ve tried. I get a lot of encouragement from fellow writers, talented artists, friends and family. My clients sometimes catch me off guard with a reference to my blog, “Hey, Beth… Sorry you’ve been sick. I saw it on your blog.” Or, “Beth, you can go ahead and invoice us, but don’t go get that steak dinner yet!”
Two ex-boyfriends follow my blog, I think (we don’t talk much anymore, of course). And my new… err… ok, I’ll say it… boyfriend…is a devoted follower (and deliverer of cupcakes when needed). My neighbors read my blog. I’ve got a friend who teaches, and she uses some of my material in her classes. Another friend is thinking of starting his own consulting business, and he is carefully charting what not to do.
My sister, Sarah, follows my blog, as does my almost sister, Ingrid (otherwise known as Ingrid in England on the blogroll). My mom sometimes reads posts, and the other day she said, “Beth, I don’t know how to tell you this, but the other day I was reading and I saw a typo. I have no idea where.”
[Pictures, from left to right: Ingrid (reads), Mom (sometimes reads) and Sarah (reads), Pop (rarely reads -- plays Freecell and follows Dilbert)].
In a couple of days I’m meeting two fellow bloggers for dinner here in the Denver area. They’ve become wonderful, supportive friends. And one blogger introduced me to her company, for whom I now work.
So I guess I’ve got a great community of readers, a nice group of friends and the support of a whole host of future writers. That’s a nice Christmas present.


Moonbeam McQueen on 24 Dec 2007 at 10:05 am #
Beth, you’re an inspiration to me. I hope you have a truly wonderful Christmas, and much success in the new year.
Papa on 24 Dec 2007 at 10:11 am #
I read it this just this morning, but I guess the damage is done. There goes my father of the year award–again
Beth on 25 Dec 2007 at 5:36 am #
Papa, you win the award every year.
Ms. McQueen, thanks as always for visiting, commenting and supporting.
D.J. on 25 Dec 2007 at 6:42 am #
Beth,
I must insist that you make a correction to the stated purpose of your blog. It says:
“My goal all along in starting the blog was to give others a chronicle of one woman’s attempt to start her own writing business.”
I have a habit of reading every word in a document, or web page, and assign that particular work its natural meaning. When I read a word I do not understand, I head to the dictionary. You have sent me to the dictionary on more than one occasion, just to let you know. Anyway, I digress.
The offending word is “attempt”. This is simply a misplaced word in an otherwise meaningful phase. It should read “…one woman’s successes while starting her own business.” I think it is more fitting and paints the truthful picture of what you are accomplishing.
Something to ponder, and Merry Christmas
D.J.
Paula on 29 Dec 2007 at 1:38 pm #
Count a reader from Buenos Aires, Argentina, among your followers as well. Cheers and happy new year!
Joleeann on 06 Jan 2008 at 2:09 pm #
Hi Beth,
My trusty laptop from my job died and while I am waiting to see if it can be fixed I have really gotten behind on my blog reading and writing. I’m back to catch up and I see you have a new guy. How cool! (Being a single woman myself it was the one of the first things I noticed.):) Seriously, I am happy for you in what appears to be a continuous stream of work coming your way. You may not be where you want to be; but you are certainly on your way. Happy New Year and congratulations on your current and continuous success.
BillinDetroit on 02 Jul 2008 at 3:02 pm #
Beth,
Neither my Mom nor my Dad nor either of my sisters read my blogs. My wife only reads one when I insist.
It’s all good.
I blog; therefore I am.