Learning false bravado, or what to do when Seth Godin leaves a comment
I awoke
moments ago, powered up my computer, grabbed a cup of tea. When Outlook
finished yawning, I had 16 messages. One was to moderate a comment by Seth
Godin. Yep. The. Seth. Godin.
My first reaction was to write a
headline. OHMYGOD! Seth Godin came by! And then proceed to gush about how I
felt when The. Seth. Godin. added his words to mine on the blog. I was tempted
to write as if I were engaged in the Snoopy happy dance, cheering and clapping
and jumping with glee. What in the world did *I* do to rate the visit?
That was my first reaction. My second
reaction is one that I’ve been having frequently. Instead of being completely
flustered and overwhelmed and, well, obsequiously grateful, I tried to examine
what this means in terms of me being a business owner.
I’m trying to make the leap from being a
writer-hobbiest to being a writer-professional. This is my business. Instead of
squealing with delight and wagging my tail, I need to stop and act like a
business person. It perhaps shouldn’t strike me as so extremely farfetched that
The. Seth. Godin. would stop by, since I did link to one of his posts
yesterday. Any business person would, of course, be thrilled to be noticed by
The. Seth. Godin. But a business person wouldn’t necessarily transform herself
into a 12-year-old Harry Potter fan at a J.K. Rowling book signing.
Another example: Recently a potential
client asked me for some case studies of how my marketing techniques had helped
someone’s ROI. My first reaction was, “Well, I don’t know for sure because I’m
brand new, but I just *know* this will help you.” I almost typed that to the
client, but I waited a day instead. During the day, I thought about his
question, and I was finally able to figure out a case study that showed a
marked improvement for my former company.
When I decided to strike out alone as a professional
copywriter, I kept reading about putting together my samples into a
portfolio. My first thought was that I had absolutely nothing. I had been in
sales/marketing for many years with one company, a director of education for a
nonprofit before that. I hadn’t written full time since grad school, and many
of my newspaper clips were literally yellow. I didn’t have any experience, I
thought. Nothing relevant. And I tried to think of ways to play down my lack of
experience.
My worst idea: I was going to send out a
postcard that had a picture of a half-filled glass of water. The front would
read, “The pessimist says, ‘Gee, she doesn’t have much experience yet.’” The
back: “The optimist says, “Yeah, but I bet she’s still cheap.’”
Yeah. It was that bad. But within a
couple of days, I found several dozen examples of flyers, brochures, articles,
press releases, white papers, postcards… All perfect examples of the kind of
work I do. So that postcard never materialized, and I have a professional
portfolio I can bring to show potential clients, plus plenty of samples on my
website.
The point here is that in order for
people to take me seriously as a professional writer, I need to take myself
seriously.
I need to take
off the “I’m not worthy” t-shirt
and replace it with a pinstriped suit. When I truly believe that I’m a
professional who can help people with their businesses, other people will believe
me as well. It’s not really about *false bravado.* It’s more about the true
conviction that a business owner should have that her products and services are
really worth something.
Thus, I want to thank Mr. Godin for
dropping by because I really do admire his work (I just finished Purple Cow). And I will continue to use his
principles to try to stand out in a crowd. He’s invited back anytime to
contribute.
(But I did call my mother.)


John Leach on 12 Oct 2007 at 7:54 pm #
Hi Beth,
Just came across your blog by searching for Seth Godin…I love your blog and think you are on track. Cool that Seth stopped by. He’s incredible…I emailed him on his blog and he actually responded quickly…didn’t expect it.
I’m subscribing to your feed.
John Leach
(writer wannabee)
Beth Ziesenis on 12 Oct 2007 at 8:00 pm #
John,
Welcome. I’m so glad you found me. I’m having a horrible blogging day. I broke WordPress rules that I didn’t know about, and they suspended me. Ugh.
At least I was able to salvage the content when it happened.
Thanks for coming by…. glad you’re going to stay a while, and good luck on your writing.